Hi Folks!
I´m new to this site. And so I thought I may leave my Story here. So you can pick it up, read it and maybe leave a comment.
I figured out that I also was also attracted to Girls in a very young Age. The Household I grew up was very Open minded. So when I became 13-14 I began to saw myself more and more as Bisexual. I never had a "real" Coming Out. To my Parents I just mentioned it when our Conversations came to the Dating Topic. And I said
"maybe I would like to have a Girlfriend as well as a Boyfriend".
My Father where very cool about it, since the first second. He absolutely accepted it as part of me.
I´t wasn´t like "I don´t care", but more like "I understand, think it´s cool you don´t lie about it and its absolutely ok for me as long as you are happy".
I´m still overwhelmed, reminding how much he understood it.
On my Mothers side it wasn´t like bad. More the typical frases like "How could you know,yet?"
"Woulnd´t you date a Boy first?" "Aren´t you to young to know for sure?", stuff like that.
The worst Expierence I had on that was that I told a (I thought) close Friend, saying that´s very sensitive Topic for me and I wish her to don´t tell anybody at school. But guess what happend. Yeah...of curse two Days later people rushed on me asking if its true. And in the end of that week Bisexual became Lesbian.
But I did try to stand strong, not hiding anything. Just said "Yeah I like both sexes and I am totally fine with that" and sometimes tried to explain it properly to the People who where open enought to listen.
Since that Time I never made a big deal out of being Bi. I was in a long term Relationship with a Man.
But I never felt like "oh I´m straight now". Never! I never lost my apetite on Woman.
So If I considered myself "Bisexual", why I´m Posting in a Pansexual Community you may Wonder.
Cuz I changed or let´s better say realized, that Bi don´t fits my view on that whole Thing anymore.
The last few Months I watched a lot of Transgender Videos on Youtube. Not because I feel that Way. I´m absolutely ok being a Woman. But rather interrested in the Topic. And I saw myself getting more and more into it. And that as long that I can find something attracting on a Person. Like the Way they move, Parts of their Bodys or their Vioce. I wouln´t mind if he or she is in the middle of Transformation. That The sexual Identity or the biological Sex doesn´t count for me in the Fact If I could have an Releationship with someone.
And so I find myself much more comfortable, finding a word that describes my Feeling so well.
So If you Consider to Comment on that Post. Which I would be very happy about. Than I would like to talk about your Experience with being Pansexual and the Fact its so unknown in Society.
Have a inspired time!
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May 2013
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So, I'm 14, my name is Raven, and I started question my sexuality around the age of 10, when a girl said something to me that made my heart skip a beat, even though she was only kidding around. It felt natural, and I explored these feelings. I knew I liked girls and guys, but I thought for a bit I might be transgender, because I didn't feel like a girl inside. After a bit of experimentation and research, I came to terms with me being pansexual, gender blind and gender neutral. :D I'm very proud of it too! Hi all, Hi everyone! I'm Lainey. I'm totally new to this website and to this community. I'm joining this community because of my sexual orientation and I figure it will be a nice way to meet other people. Here's a bit about me: I wrote this for a very special girl, I hope you like it. I'm Amelica (or Micaela) I'm 19 years old. And honestly I don't know if I'm a pansexual.... in other forum where we were discussing about sexuality I started asking me why am I supposed to be a girl and what being a girl means. You may call me Maniac, Tenshi, or even Crona-chan. I'm an anime/manga (specifically Soul Eater)-obsessed 17 year old female, who is also a budding artist who someday will write novels, manga, doujinshi, sing, travel, and voice act. I plan to at the very least study psychology if I find myself not up to becoming one. Though I'd be curious as I grew into my teen years, I began questioning my sexuality extensively last year when developing an affection for an androgynous character (say what you will, but characters are based to be realistic), and have been able to comfortably identify myself as Pansexual. Currently I'm single and wondering who I shall fall in love with one day, but that doesn't get in my way of caring for every person in some way and enjoying the beautiful bonds of friendship and family. Thank you for reading, ciao~ Hi! Nice to meet everybody! I'm Auraquartzheart! Just wanted to say hello. I just recently discovered that I not actually bisexual but in fact the term pansexual is much more correct when describing my sexuality. I'm still trying to figure it all out. I'm currently dating a female! I'm pagan, and yogi! I'm very new to live journal. I'd like to connect with others that have similar interests to myself and make some new friends hopefully. And that's it! I'm a welcoming and very open spirit! Contact me anytime! Strangers welcome~:) says Alex on Tumblr, "When I was with James this week I wrote a little poem about gender and decided to draw a comic for said poem. Hope you guys enjoy!" ( click here to see itCollapse ) |




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